Hypocrisy
A hypocrite is so one that I try hard not to be because I
believe it makes a person appear fake or unworthy of anything. Recently I lost
a very close friend because of that, I’ve been friends with this person ever
since I moved to GA that was six years ago he knew my family and how much they meant
to me. Through the years I told him all kinds of secrets about myself and so
did he. I knew his likes and dislikes as he in turn knew mine. This person who
I no longer talk to is gay he had a boyfriend who was awesome and all his
friends liked him. My ex-friend lived
with his grandmother who did not know about his sexual preference, so he hid
his relationships. One day he and his boyfriend had a fight, over what I will
never know. They had a fight the boyfriend came over asking me for help because
my friend would not let him explain what happened. My first thought was that he
cheated and he assured me he did not. Being a person who would do anything for
her friends I called my “best friends” to ask him what was wrong, he begins to
yell at me, he just completely blew up. He began to call me names said he was coming
over my house to talk to him and other vulgar terms. I believe I’m a nice and
quiet person but it does not mean I can’t be rude and after the vulgar language
I began to be.
Later that day he did come to my house standing outside
yell asking where his boyfriend was est. he was drunk and in no way the friend
I knew and loved he yelled at my mother disrespected her house. For a while the
neighbors did not really associate with her because of it, they were afraid of
bring up the topic. His brother was with him and he tried to manhandle my
mother to get her out of the way because she was blocking the door to the house.
A person who was suppose to be my best friend did all this and caused my family
so much drama all for someone he had dated all of four months. For a friend who
told me that he would never hurt me or my family he sure did a great job of it.
Everyone can be a hypocrite at some point in their lives. Saying a simple
phrase like I don’t like soda, and then three days later someone see’s you
drinking a Coca-Cola. To me that’s exactly what he did, I told him that I had a
friend who disrespected me and my family all because it was fun it hurt and
made me cry, his response to that was to tell me he would never do that to a
friend and that, that person was just stupid. My question is if that person was
stupid what does that make him for doing even worse.