Wednesday, March 28, 2012


Hypocrisy
            A hypocrite is so one that I try hard not to be because I believe it makes a person appear fake or unworthy of anything. Recently I lost a very close friend because of that, I’ve been friends with this person ever since I moved to GA that was six years ago he knew my family and how much they meant to me. Through the years I told him all kinds of secrets about myself and so did he. I knew his likes and dislikes as he in turn knew mine. This person who I no longer talk to is gay he had a boyfriend who was awesome and all his friends liked him.  My ex-friend lived with his grandmother who did not know about his sexual preference, so he hid his relationships. One day he and his boyfriend had a fight, over what I will never know. They had a fight the boyfriend came over asking me for help because my friend would not let him explain what happened. My first thought was that he cheated and he assured me he did not. Being a person who would do anything for her friends I called my “best friends” to ask him what was wrong, he begins to yell at me, he just completely blew up. He began to call me names said he was coming over my house to talk to him and other vulgar terms. I believe I’m a nice and quiet person but it does not mean I can’t be rude and after the vulgar language I began to be.
            Later that day he did come to my house standing outside yell asking where his boyfriend was est. he was drunk and in no way the friend I knew and loved he yelled at my mother disrespected her house. For a while the neighbors did not really associate with her because of it, they were afraid of bring up the topic. His brother was with him and he tried to manhandle my mother to get her out of the way because she was blocking the door to the house. A person who was suppose to be my best friend did all this and caused my family so much drama all for someone he had dated all of four months. For a friend who told me that he would never hurt me or my family he sure did a great job of it. Everyone can be a hypocrite at some point in their lives. Saying a simple phrase like I don’t like soda, and then three days later someone see’s you drinking a Coca-Cola. To me that’s exactly what he did, I told him that I had a friend who disrespected me and my family all because it was fun it hurt and made me cry, his response to that was to tell me he would never do that to a friend and that, that person was just stupid. My question is if that person was stupid what does that make him for doing even worse.        

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